http://blog.prime.lavalife.com/2008/11/03/where-the-focus-is/ Blogging about life as a midlife woman with one ex, three grown children, and an empty bed. Tue, 06 Oct 2009 01:07:46 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 http://blog.prime.lavalife.com/2008/11/03/where-the-focus-is/#comment-66 Werner Bill Mon, 10 Nov 2008 14:25:36 +0000 http://lavalifeprime.wordpress.com/?p=54#comment-66 Garcie just drop him a guy going dutch on the third date and let a women walk in the dark is anything but a gentleman . Garcie just drop him a guy going dutch on the third date and let a women walk in the dark is anything but a gentleman .

]]> http://blog.prime.lavalife.com/2008/11/03/where-the-focus-is/#comment-64 Sybil Mon, 03 Nov 2008 01:52:53 +0000 http://lavalifeprime.wordpress.com/?p=54#comment-64 Hmmm Let's see. If this guy emails, or calls you back, like Nancy Reagan suggested, just say No. Here's why. If I was with, say, a pal, and they had to walk to a darkened parking lot a block away, I would walk with them, and have them drive me back to my car. I am a woman, and that's what I would do, and have done in the past to both male and female friends. That alone would be enough. Forget about paying for your dinner - you should take turns doing that, this isn't the middle ages, or the 1950's for that matter. But the 'walk alone in the dark to your car' thing? Wow. Absolutely not. Hmmm
Let’s see. If this guy emails, or calls you back, like Nancy Reagan suggested, just say No.
Here’s why. If I was with, say, a pal, and they had to walk to a darkened parking lot a block away, I would walk with them, and have them drive me back to my car. I am a woman, and that’s what I would do, and have done in the past to both male and female friends.
That alone would be enough. Forget about paying for your dinner – you should take turns doing that, this isn’t the middle ages, or the 1950’s for that matter. But the ‘walk alone in the dark to your car’ thing? Wow. Absolutely not.

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