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Comment on The single life is great, but not always by Gwendolyn

Gwendolyn — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 01:07:46 +0000

As I was reading your blog, I thought I was reading about myself and how I have felt for so long. I have been divorced for 16 yrs (after a 20 yr marriage) when back to school got a RN degree, raised my four children, each finishing college, and now all out on there own. I eat, slept and drank my life as there mother, because it was important to me for them to have something stable. Now, they are all on there own, and I have had time to realize I am so lonely, and I hate it. I miss not having someone love and take care of me. I need and want someone to give me their time, attention, affection and companionship. I am not shy, work in the medical field around a variety of men, but no one ever shows an interest. I try dating services online, with no results, and now I’ve recently signed up for this lavalifeprime…..we’ll see! If I hear one more person say, “when you least expect it, someone will just walk into your life”……when?

Comment on The single life is great, but not always by robert t.

robert t. — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 22:58:46 +0000

It’s the same old tired ass stuff…women have to over think everything. Thank your self improvement best selling paperback for leading you into murky waters…..

Comment on The single life is great, but not always by Alex

Alex — Thu, 06 Aug 2009 00:23:25 +0000

I would love you to Blog at babyboomersare.com

Comment on The single life is great, but not always by Classytoo

Classytoo — Sun, 19 Jul 2009 12:43:00 +0000

I read your comments with interest, particularly the part where you mention how one can experience the healing magical powers of love in our relationships with our children. I have recently experienced a relationship where I fell ‘in love’ too quickly. Having been without intimacy for quite some time, my entire body was aching for attention, and responded accordingly. Yes, I was vulnerable, but now in hindsight in the future I have a set of guidelines for myself that perhaps I can share with others. It’s called the 6 date approach. In this internet dating environment one cannot possibly know an individual in anyway that they should be having sex, making love within a couple of dates. Woman have to establish a stron sense of self worth, high self esteem, set boundaries, and determine your needs in a relationship. Often I have been too maliable in the past ‘letting them take the lead’, if we are truly going to be women in this 21st century we must learn how to manage this situation up front better. Of course this has to be managed and communicated in a loving, clear, assertive, but not agressive way. Woman are inherently nurturing beings and can very quickly move into a loving relationship when the attraction is there. Men’s response is often not the same initially even though the attraction is there they are fearful, cannot respond to somthing as deep as a woman can initially. Therefore we must take them through the process. Let’s not give away our power. And don’t think men have the answers to my earlier questions. History has proven that in the world of male/female pursuits nothing has really changed fron our grandmother times in the role of building a solid loving relationship.

Comment on The single life is great, but not always by whattheheck733

whattheheck733 — Fri, 17 Jul 2009 22:42:31 +0000

it’s like your words are my own thank you

Comment on The joy of a manfriend, not a boyfriend by Posy

Posy — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 15:58:11 +0000

Yeah, men are neat!

Comment on The single life is great, but not always by Lea

Lea — Sun, 05 Jul 2009 00:03:46 +0000

What you have written here, is the way I have felt for, well, way too many years, if I’m being honest. Thank you for sharing this. It was absolutely beautiful.

Comment on The single life is great, but not always by Dearheart

Dearheart — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 14:30:52 +0000

Amen!!! I am that woman. My life has come to full blossom, yet is missing two vital petals… romance & love.

Comment on Who would want to be the Bachelorette? Yikes! by Erika

Erika — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 09:30:01 +0000

I thought Juan Barbieri was the most handsome
and gentleman out of the entire group of hot
guys that had the pleasure to meet the beautifull
Jillian. I mean what else do you want, he had
the personality, looks, maturity, and wow if i were
single I would be thrilled to be able to date him.
i would have a chace with him.

Comment on Wanted: Advice from Men by Ian

Ian — Sun, 21 Jun 2009 11:02:30 +0000

Seems to me that anyone, man or woman will make themselves available(within reason) to someone they are genuinely interested in. Rather than speculate why he is acting the way he is, let’s just say I think you’re reaction is correct- I just wonder what took you so long to get there. Also,I can assure you that this type of behaviour is not exclusive to one gender.